
This was the first man I ever loved. I was 10 yrs old when I met him. I told my mom then I was gonna marry him someday. At 12 he finally gave me my first kiss. I loved it. I know I was young but unlike most people I don't regret nothing. Eventually we became serious in our relationship. We enjoyed being with each other. We went for walks, we went to the movies almost every weekend.
Eventually mom caught on to it and boy was she angry. She even went as far as telling my dad. She lied to him about a few of the details. Truth be told at that point I was innocent on most of the things she accused me of doing. Dad was pretty angry, I don't know why. That whole ordeal just made it worse. I knew he loved me and I was determined now more than ever we should be together. When I was 15 mom finally gave me the go ahead. At my 16 birthday he had planned to ask me to marry him. He wanted to ask my dad for permission but dad wouldn't even talk to him much less anything else. So as soon as dad left he asked me to marry him. I was so excited. At 17 I was married. I am now Heidi Chacon. After a year of marriage, we finally parted. He wanted to leave michigan and then go to Guatemala. So I decided not to leave my family. We talked a lot until he left for guatemala. Up until he left we remained good friends. I still think of him often. I heard he is a father now. Which is something I could have never givin him. I know he is happy and I know God put him in my life so I would have faith that there are good things in this world you just have to keep a look out. I dont know what lyes ahead for him or I, but I do know that if he or I ever need one another we will both be there.

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I have never, ever seen your dad as upset as he was when he found out what was going on with you two at such a young age. You can't really blame him. Even though he has been far from a great dad to you, you are still his little girl. He felt really helpless in that situation.
I know I guess I just wish dad would realize that I may make mistakes from time to time but he cant let the devil influence him to be rash. I have given dad many chances to be involved, he makes mistakes in his life and I dont judge him.
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